Monday, November 22, 2010


So, in true pessimist fashion and with Thanksgiving approaching, I thought I'd do a little something different this year.  Rather than a "thankful" post, which everyone does, I'm going to write about the things for which I am not thankful.  Now don't get me wrong, the thankful post is coming later in the week, closer to Thanksgiving.  I have so much to be thankful for this year, despite some of the hardships, but you'll have to wait until nearer Thanksgiving to learn what those things are.

So, what does a (un)thankful list look like?  About like this, I'm not thankful for...

  1. A co-worker who can't pull her weight and doesn't think about anyone else in the office -- rather, she does things like going out for a fifteen minute presentation, with me having gone in early to cover her, and doesn't come back for an hour! Or, coming in 30 minutes late because she must eat lunch at noon, on the dot, without exception, never mind that she should be working and is putting someone else out by being late.

  2. A classmate who's a total misogynist and bully -- the man comes to class and sleeps half the time, he plays on his computer and does homework for other classes, and when he says something, it's always sexist and ridiculous.  He tries to leave early and while others are still talking, he likens the plays to the "piƱa colada" song, and he rudely says things like, "I liked the [insert author name] from the book better before this discussion" which is his prerogative and might mean more were he not denigrating the student giving the presentation that week.  Oh, and if he says "but, but, but, but..." or "ya know" one more time I might strangle him!

  3. My own inability to get the job done -- Let's just say that I'm still no where near having my papers done and they're due in 8 days. Everyday I tell myself it's time get a good start and everyday I find a new and creative way to procrastinate for another day.  I'm running out of time, I know that, but I'm still not getting it done.  I'm not sure what's going to happen, but that worrying I talked about in the last post, it's starting and I'm starting to panic!  Panic is a good thing, but it's also a bad thing.  All I can say is, I feel like I work best under pressure... which is a good thing at this point.

  4. The lingering sickness -- I can't quite kick the sickness and it's starting to be really damn annoying!  I think, or hope, that over Christmas break I'll be able to get some rest and recoup all the way.  That way, my voice will quick cracking and I'll start sounding like me again.  Of course, then school will start back in January and I'll get sick again.  It's a vicious cycle!  Of course, it wouldn't be so bad if it were just me, but it's not, it's my husband, too.  As a matter of fact, he's sicker than I am and may have to have surgery (which I'll elaborate on more later, after he sees the surgeon).

  5. My messy, messy house and messy, messy spouse -- I hate to clean, but would do it if I had time.  I'm so busy right now that finding time for domesticity is impossible.  Matt's not at all helpful when it comes to picking up, which is both annoying and ironic, since he's the one making the huge mess.  Anyone who thinks one person can't possibly be that messy hasn't met Matt.  Messes just appear around him, it has to be his super power or something, to generate messes without really trying.  Of course, his not trying extends to his not trying to pick them up, too, which is very annoying to say the least.

  6. The damn bill collectors who are calling for everyone but us -- our phone rings off the hook, starting bright and early at 8:00 a.m. every single morning.  The people calling want money, but not our money, they want other people's money.  No matter how many times we tell them they're calling the wrong place, they persist in calling.  This happened once before and got so annoying that we changed our phone number.  It's not helped anything, not really, they keep calling.  Now, some of them are for us (hey, the economy's bad, sue me!), but most of them aren't.  I'm going to result to screaming at them soon... seriously, screaming!

  7. My pointless dry erase calendar that doesn't help me remember anything and can't seem to help keep me on schedule -- this may go with #3, but it's true anyway.  I got myself a dry erase calendar with empty squares.  Every month, I fill in the squares with numbers representing the date and write my schedule and due dates.  As things come and go, I erase them. If I had a dollar for every single day's schedule I erased because it passed and nothing to done, Matt and I would be going out for a nice dinner and drinks at the end of November!  I see it, but I can't seem to do what it's telling me I need to do. It's very discouraging!

  8. 1,500 miles of insurmountable distance -- I really miss my family and the miles between us really chafe sometimes.  No, not sometimes, all the time.  I'm so tired of being so far away, I just want to be able to get in my car and go see my parents and sister.  I hate living in Texas, more and more every day, but I'm stuck here until I finish grad school.  In other words, May 2012 cannot come soon enough!  Sadly, though I love the holidays, they only seem to magnify how far the distance really is.

I could probably go on, but I realized this pessimistic list was starting to get rather lengthy, so I'll call it quits there.  I hope everyone's having a nice week so far and has a good thanksgiving holiday.  The thankful list (sans the "un") will come later in the week.  We're planning to go to Waco to see Amanda and Karen for thanksgiving this year and I can't wait.  It's going to be amazing fun!  Until then, life goes on as usual and I get to work and go to class -- oh joy!


  1. Hope you get a good start on those papers soon! Have a safe trip!

  2. Oh come on Krisyn, you couldn't squeeze in two more (un)thankful items to round your list off to a nice, even ten? ;-)

    We're dealing with a barrage of bill collectors, too. Not for us, but for Monique Somebody, and one or two others. I just told Clint today that I wanted to change our phone number (our phone starts ringing off the hook at 8:00 a.m, as well), but now that you've mentioned that it didn't help your situation much, I'm not sure if I will still go through with it. But yes, it is definitely annoying and one of the things on my unwritten "unthankful" list.

    I think about 99.99% of spouses are very messy. I swear Clint can make more of a mess in one hour than the kids do all day. But luckily he's pretty cool about cleaning up after himself if I bring it up. I just wish it would occur him to do it on his own. I just don't like to have to drill him all the time to clean up after himself. Oh well, se la vi...

  3. Thanks Phoena, I hope you have a nice holiday!!

  4. I may add two more things, just for you Jodi! ;)

    And c'est la vie, indeed!! I think it must be men in general then... though my dad is pretty neat and tidy. He's not messy at all, so growing up with that I have a skewed sense of the mess to expect of men. Then again, it's not like this is my first go round, Mike wasn't exactly the cleanliest person and I spent a hell of a lot of time cleaning up after him... maybe that's why I resent having to clean up after Matt. Hmm... I swear, I think I need therapy.

  5. My hubby is messy too, and even when he tries to clean up, he does such a shoddy job that I would rather make the kids do it instead. :)
    In fact, the only guy I can think of who isn't messy is my dad. Not only does ne NOT make messes, but he is GOOD at cleaning.

  6. omg the clutter. if I didn't have a messy spouse then it's like the earth shatter i think.

    For many many years now my house usually stays clean - except the bedroom.
    It was a bad habit that my clothes clean in one corner and dirty in a different corner
    would lay on the floor.

    Now I keep a great house and in my bedroom I have 3 mesh hampers. 1 for dirty
    1 for clean tops and 1 for clean bottoms. Undies in the drawer.
    I can't however seem to get the hubby's side of the room uncluttered
    and dust free, and the office which is his man-cave is a disaster of
    numerous in-progress but never ending projects.

    The hubby's junk days are numbered. I'm about to use Thanksgiving holiday
    to Spring clean early. Sucks to be him.